Peaceful Christmas: Week 8

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Opening our decorations

I am almost caught up with Simple Mom! Next year maybe I’ll be talking about each week while it is still that many weeks before Christmas.

To update you on how I’m doing with the first 4 weeks before I launch into the next…

I found a photo card I loved but they don’t deliver to Canada so I tried seeing what I could print at a Kodak kiosk and the experience was less than helpful so we went back to the drawing board and John designed a card in Photoshop that looks similar to the one I wanted online. So no, I didn’t get them ordered, but hopefully will have them printed by the end of the week.

On to Week 8, the only one I’ll talk about today because it comes with pictures.

8 Weeks Till Christmas: Brainstorm Decorating Ideas.

A couple of the points simplemom gives include taking an inventory of what you have, hunting the sales well before the holidays and embracing a simple look. Last year after Christmas I bought several items at Superstore, Ikea and other locations that then went unopened in my 2 green tubs of holiday decorations (see image above). Not only did I get an incredible price but I also avoid getting sucked into whatever trends they roll out at full price this year and getting out the decorations is like unwrapping early Christmas presents.

I agree with simplemom, the stores design their displays to entice you to buy what you don’t need and expect it to look at good in your own house. But it never does because you don’t have a room full of the other 150 matching items you would need to complete the look. And now you regret your impulse buy and the random mix of decorations you’ve accumulated.

If I good give any good advice about decorating on a budget, some related to simplemom’s thoughts and some of my own, I might offer the following:

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My red and brown look

1. Decide on a look or style and stick with it (yes, year after year unless you are independently wealthy). You’ll be less likely to buy impulse junk you’ll throw away and it will take less money and effort to create a cohesive decor.

For example, I love the woodsy/winter cabin look and very little green – mostly reds, browns, creams, tans and golds. So I resist the temptation to buy one-offs and instead go for items like pine cones, a felt tree skirt with trees on it and knit stripped stockings in red, brown and cream.

Just because Ikea tried to say black and orange makes nice Christmas 2008 decoration colours doesn’t mean all the people who bought them don’t seriously regret their decision now (unless their decorations have always been those colours in which case they were actually following the rules).

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My 2008 craft from Martha Stewart

2. If you like to create homemade decorations, don’t overwhelm yourself, choose one per year. Craft supplies are pricy and add up if you’re trying to create five things you saw on marthastewart.com.

Decide on a craft that’s doable (and of course matching the theme you’re building) and you won’t end up opening that box of decorations the next year and wondering why you spray painted the nativity gold and spent a fortune on supplies for handmade Disney princess ornaments.

For example, in keeping with my woodsy theme, last year I made homemade bird ornaments our of cinnamon, craft glue and an assortment of glitter and beads in red, brown and metallic.

This year I’d like to continue the theme and maybe create something for the table that carries the birds, pine cones and colours into other rooms.

Stocking, wreath and nativity grouped together on the mantle

Stockings, wreath, nativity grouped on the mantle

3. If you don’t have much to spend and you want to keep things simple but more put together than a dorm room, group items together in vignettes.

I actually have very view Christmas decorations (only 2 Rubbermade tubs full including towels, napkins and candles) but I avoid making it look sparse by not spreading them out around the house.

Over the years, yes, I hope to collect and make enough to make each room equally festive, but for now, I focus on two locations: the fireplace and the dining room table.

I have towels in the kitchen and pinecones and candles in the guest bathroom but be careful, a lone decoration can easily look cheap, wrong in scale and ineffective in creating atmosphere.

Our Asian ornament

Our Asian ornament

4. Consider incorporating a family tradition into your decorations. Infusing meaning into the decor not only allows your family to be involved  but it also gives purpose to your purchases.

For example, John and I liked my parents’ tradition of purchasing an ornament each year to commemorate something unique about the year, like a vacation or a city we lived in or a child being born. Their tree is covered with ornaments from all over the world and has been a conversation piece my whole life.

We started our first year of marriage and our unique collection includes an ornament received as a wedding present, one from Asia, Paris and the (Red) campaign. It is becoming a conversation piece and holds memories for us both.

Along with the childhood ornaments we brought into the marriage, I know the biggest part of our Christmas decorating will be the most special.

So I don’t plan to purchase anymore decorations before Christmas but I will continue the tradition of making a craft and then I’ll cash in on huge sales after the holidays. Below are some more shots of my decorations this year.

Stocking hangers

Stocking hangers

Pine cones and red candles make the bathroom festive too!

Pine cones and red candles make the bathroom festive too!

Olive wood nativity from Israel, gift from Mom & Dad B

Olive wood nativity (Israel), gift from Mom Dad B

Macbook box makes a great elevation for a tree stand

Macbook box makes a great elevation for a tree stand

Work gift last year, sparkly pear!

Work gift last year, sparkly pear!

This year

This year's ornament: We loved Paris

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

Peaceful Christmas: Week 10 & 9

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Christmas 2008 at our place

So far I have figured out our Christmas budget, and how much we can spend on each person, and have figured out what mailings we’ll do and to whom. As far as setting up the mailing, we have our addresses in place and have designed our photo card we just need to print them. I’m hoping to handle that this weekend so we can get our cards and Christmas letters ready to go by the end of next week.

Onward and upward.

Week 10 of Simple Mom’s 12 Weeks to a Peaceful Christmas is all about starting your Christmas shopping. I’ll admit I have been on the fence about this one. I know in theory that finishing my shopping before the holiday season is suppose to help me save money, be less stressed and enjoy Christmas. But I enjoy being out among people this time of year, drinking an egg nog latte and feeling the collective cheer. I’m concerned that I’ll miss out on the fun if I skip the holiday shopping.

However, it is true that being in stores with the music playing, the beautiful displays and a festive mood in the air makes spending too much money seem like it might not be that big of a deal. This year we’re serious about not overspending (and following our budget more closely in general) so I’m willing to try staying out of the stores this year. I won’t know until I try.

That being said, I have made a list of everyone we want to buy for and a gift idea in the agreed upon price range. Now my goal is to purchase whatever I can online and whatever is left before December.

Still playing catch-up with Simple Mom’s weekly plan so I’ll do a second one this week again.

Week 9′s assignment is to make plans to give back. Well I know right away what we’ll be doing this year. I’m a huge fan of charity:water and all that they do and have already set up a mycharity:water campaign to raise money for wells. I’ll be talking about it a lot this Christmas because I am trying to raise $500 in place of receiving gifts, cards, baked goods or anything that costs $$!

I support charity:water because 100% of public donations directly fund water projects in developing nations. I love being able to make the campaign my own instead of just sending in a cheque. So visit my Christmas Water campaign page, sign up to follow me, donate, help me get this campaign off the ground and give back this Christmas. I’ll post more on that soon.

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As long as I do get those photo cards printed this weekend, some online shopping and some promotion of my charity:water campaign I’m on track. How are you guys doing with your Christmas plans? What’s causing you stress already and how are you trying to tackle that?

Peaceful Christmas: Week 12 & 11

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My Christmas craft 2008 will be on display this year, too

As I mentioned last time, I am going to follow along with Simple Mom’s 12 Weeks to a Peaceful Christmas, starting with doing a couple weeks at a time to catch up.

The first post dealt with the Christmas budget. You can download a budget worksheet from her downloads page, it’s really eye-opening how holiday costs add up. At first you think, it’s only the gifts I have to worry about… but the truth is the real costs also include baking supplies, wrapping supplies, stamps, etc.

I think the idea of budgeting for Christmas spending throughout the year is a great one. Simple Mom recommends doing a budget worksheet of how much you spend at Christmas then divide it by 12 and put aside that much each month. Then when December arrives it’s not a financial strain. Obviously too late for that this year but I am definitely going to see how my budget worksheet estimates hold up and then implement a holiday savings account in January.

We’ll have to go easy with our budget this year as we’re flying to spend the holidays with family and have more family members to buy for each year! But leaving home for Christmas does have it’s advantages as we never host meals or house guests and skip the real tree and other decorating expenses.

Ok, Christmas budget, got it. Next thing.

Since I’m catching up let’s do 11 Weeks Till Christmas: Gather Your Addresses.

I already have all our family and friends in a database because we raise financial support for our jobs. So that part is handled. But the second part of the task is to decide how we’ll be sending our Christmas greetings and what supplies we’ll need for that.

I think we’ll end up with a photo card for everyone, a letter for those who don’t have email and an email letter for the rest. It would be cheaper and more environmentally friendly to skip the written letter but alas, we still have loved ones without computers!

So now I have to finish this budget and plan what supplies to buy for our letters. I think I’ll even get a head start on making the those photo cards…

Talking Christmas in October

simple mom I’m already feeling the stress these days with a lot on my plate but start talking Holiday Season and the days get really full. I love Christmas so much (and yes I am talking about this in October but stay with me on this one, there’s a reason) and look forward to the sights, smells, sounds, shopping and traditions. (I tried to think of an S word to keep the theme there but couldn’t come up with anything.)

But I will admit that I do get pretty stressed trying to balance all that I love and not take on too much of a good thing. So I got pretty excited when my exploring on Twitter (which is currently my stress reliever and connection to all things I’d rather spend my time on) and led me to simplemom who has a site called, well, Simple Mom. (‘Life hacks for home managers’, love it.)

On 12 Weeks to a Peaceful Christmas she starts the first week of October with a post-per-week on what you should do that week to be totally prepared before Christmas. The idea is, do a chunk of things a week for 12 weeks and you’ll be able to enjoy some peace during the holidays.

I’ve already missed 3 posts so I am going to have to do some catch-up but since we don’t have kids and we’re spending Christmas away from home there should be some things I can cut out.

First up: Week 12 (Oct 2) Prepare Your Holiday Budget

I’ll read up and let you know in the next post how I do completing this step. Maybe you want to join me and see if we can stay sane together?

christmas is in the air

photo-83.jpg I am a bit delayed in posting this but I am happy to announce I got my first Starbucks red cup of the season the other day. It is officially that time of the year.

I was a bit disappointed in the gingerbread latte I sacrificed my recent coffee-free efforts for (I recommend requesting they hold the sugared ginger chunks that come on top) but I did round 2 today and this has to be one of the best eggnog lattes I’ve had. Excluding the ones I made in my SBUX days of course. photo-82.jpg

I am also very excited about the wreath I made after being inspired by the yarnball wreaths and decorations they used this year. I didn’t have quite the same variety of different sizes for the Christmas balls but it was even more gratifying that I didn’t buy anything new to make it! Of course I know this is because I have some packrat genes (sorry Mom and Dad) and saved enough yarn that wasn’t long enough to crochet anything to make a whole Christmas wreath.

I have taken pictures of it so tonight I’ll get them off the camera and share my newest craft. I’m also quite proud of John and I as we have all of our Christmas cards for our ministry supporters written and ready to go and even some Christmas shopping done. I made a point to pick things up on sale throughout the year so if I can resist the temptation to buy more for people (gifts are one of my love languages) I think this could be a really relaxed holiday.

So any bets on how long I can last before purchasing and/or begging John to buy me a Christmas mug from Starbucks…

a day @ the porter’s

Today we spent most of the day at Corey & Peggy’s, working on our Christmas mailers and playing with their precious children. We got some great tips on getting started with raising support again and I enjoyed an episode of Thomas the Tank Engine with Caleb. I introduced him to my macbook camera and he got a kick out of holding things up and pointing to people in the camera, trying to sort out how they could be in 2 places at once. John had to make sure I didn’t try to hide those kiddies in my jacket on the way out…